And while some have said I am brave to have gone through it. Let me tell you a little
secret. I wasn't.
In fact I was a big scaredy cat.
I've read about BRCA testing since the 1990's. Talked to my various GYN's about it. I had a hysterectomy in 2004 and thought a bit about having my ovaries removed...but didn't. Right before I moved to Texas a GYN I was friends with encouraged me to get tested and I even got the number of a teaching hospital's genetics department to make an appointment. But did I do it?
no.
Because I was scared
Because I was scared
I was scared my insurance wouldn't cover it
I was scared it might be used to deny me coverage as a pre-existing condition
But most of all I was scared...they might find something.
So for years, I went for my yearly gyn check up
as well as a yearly transvaginal u/s and mammogram
and honestly? I even missed a few years.
yep.
I kept thinking, maybe I was fine. I didn't want to know.
My head was firmly stuck in the sand.
So when I moved to Texas and had an appointment with my new gyn, she readily made me a referral to cancer genetics who scheduled an appointment for me.
I figured it was time to just get it done and over with.
So I went.
Yes...I was positive.
A few things I did not know:
1. Insurance does cover testing and if you know the specific mutation it's only about 400.00
2. Health insurance cannot use genetic testing as a pre-existing condition, although
life insurance may.
3. By the time a ovarian cancer is detected by u/s or exam it's generally a stage 3-4 tumor.
4. Genetics does not discriminate. It can be passed equally by mothers and fathers.
So for everyone out there who has a family history who is scared of testing. Please know...I feel you. I do. I was once you too.
While discovering cancer during a preventative surgery sucks. Finding out ignoring it until I had symptoms could have been ...deadly.
I have 3 kids. I want to be around to torment them for years to come. Cancer could have stopped that.
WHOA.
So if you meet any of the following criteria please consider meeting with a genetic counselor.
I beg you.
Criteria for testing
- Breast/Ovarian cancer diagnosed before age 50 years
- Cancer in both breasts
- Both breast and ovarian cancers in the same family
- Multiple breast cancers
- Two or more primary types of BRCA1- or BRCA2-related cancers in a single family member
- Cases of male breast cancer
- Ashkenazi Jewish ethnicity
The life you save...may be your own...or your sisters...or your cousins.
But do it.
Remember...Knowledge is POWER.
I so completely agree. My finding out I was BRCA2+ (completely by accident) was the only reason I got an MRI which found my breast cancer at a very early stage. Knowledge definitely is power.
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